We're around. Most just don't sit on forums listening to guys talk about how hot/awful women are. Or they read it, then roll their eyes, and go on with their day. We're used to it... men will be men. If you are thin, you are too thin. If you are slightly overweight or curvy, you're a horrible whale. No matter what, something is wrong with you. Hell, if we don't hear it enough from men, we can just pick up a Cosmo to tell us everything that is wrong with us too. I gave up trying to be perfect a long time ago and just avoid having my picture made so that people can't further judge me from the comfort of the glow of their computer screen.
Speaking of which... I haven't see any of you guys offering to strip down and post pics so that the rest of us can judge you. Get on that.
(And yes, that first girl needs a cheeseburger. Make it a double.)