I'm kind of in the same boat now.
Guy bought my car on eBay. Paid a 100 deposit through PayPal. Paid 11,900 in cash. Attempted to drive a 1972 mustang 80 miles home. I told him he was crazy, and that I hadn't taken the car on the highway in the three years I owned it. I have cash in hand and signed bill of sale.
Called me back 20 minutes later saying I can't make it home. The car is running hot (had'nt overheated) . Also said he wanted his money back. I told him to pound sand nicely. The car was paid for in cash, and he signed a bill of sale and left my property with it. Claims he's going to go through eBay to get the money back. Think he will win?