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I got booted from TPF/TOURNEY for a friends shared fb post

By LovelyCoCoNuts

2 years ago


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#186 2 years ago
Quoted from gambit3113:

You have every right to express anything you want. And everyone has every right to respond how they want to whatever it is you said. If what you said is generally disgusting/racist/sexist/offensive, then private persons have every right to choose to take whatever action they want within the limits of the law. You don't get to whine and cry for your rights, then demand that others exercising their rights are in the wrong. If you don't want to be fired or generally shunned, don't be an asshole. Or, if you wanna be an asshole, take your medicine.

This line of thought cuts both ways ironically, you have to concede that it's a sliding scale of morality. Everyone has a line that will be crossed, and to pretend that this is sustainable - that everyone can somehow accommodate everyone's subjective line of "offensive/racist/sexist/disgusting" is disingenuous.

In many cases these words have lost meaning because they are thrown around carelessly, because it's easy to tear something or someone down vs actually talking about things. We have crossed into a realm where a disagreement has made people mortal enemies vs having a productive discussion and that is a dangerous place to be headed.

Social media needs to die, and people need to wake up and realize you win by not playing the game.

#189 2 years ago
Quoted from roffels:

I get you, but it's pretty easy to separate the "I made a mistake but I'm willing to listen/adapt/be more mindful" folks from the "My rights are being infringed!" folks. And yes, it cuts both ways. Try talking about [pinside prohibited topic] in a predominately [pinside prohibited topic]-believing community and you'll be ostracized. We understand that's true freedom of speech. Sucks to be on the receiving end, but it's liberating to say "I want nothing to do with you."

Yep, usually you can no matter the position it's easy to see who wants to learn and get along vs who doesn't. Having this discourse online really makes things worse because people can read into words and project emotions or motive.
It's liberating to cut people off, but it's also too easy to do this as well. I know people that cut off family and close friends over trivial things, all because we've adopted throw away convenience , usually reserved for cheap goods, into handling real relationships and it's just sad.

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