Wifes, is part of the reason the divorce rate is so high, men are the other. Me and my wife are the same person, meaning we think the same. She makes decisions without me if she is 100%. If she is not 100% she will ask my opinion. Same for me, if im not 100% I will ask her for her opinion to get me to 100% or not. We trust each other. We don't ask permission to do anything. Just purchased a new home (sold old home) and I went hot tub shopping. I asked her what do you think I should spend and she said IDK 6-7k? So I go out and research tubs. Ended up getting a tub for 13k installed in my sunroom floor inside my home. I knew I wanted this said tub due to how it was built and its going into my home so build quality was a must. The sales guy after discussing/negotiating price said to me as I'm handing him my CC to pay "Im sure you have to talk to your wife first..right" and I just shook my head and said No, just charge my card. He told me that every tub he sells is because the wife OKed it. Its just sad IMO.