I’ve been married for 15 years and with my wife for 20. She has had almost no interest in pinball.
Occasionally I’ll come home and she’ll be playing, which I crack up about. She has admitted to me that she really likes DI though.
I’m 47 and grew up playing and never imagined owning my own pins, but once you buy one, you then want another.
Eventually you’ll own a game she likes and she’ll play when you’re not around. I showed my wife initially how to turn on the game and I think she likes to play when nobody is around.