For casuals,
I start by comparing what we do to a dog show, or horse show, and sometimes a car show.
Many casuals quickly want to know if I am buying, or selling at shows.
Things I have observed:
You go to a dog show or cat show, but mostly you can't pet them.
You go to a Coca-Cola show, or glass bottle show, or a car show, but you don't play with the items
The outboard motor clubs will (on rare occasions), start their engines in a trashcan of water (for cooling)
Tractor shows, are a cool group, and might have performances.