Just practice till you get the feel of how the solder flows, both removing or installing components. Honestly if your good enough, you could probably solder with a Bic lighter, OK joking on the lighter!
Have a pair of long tweezers too. Harbor Freight sells component removal tools too, like picks, and lighted tweezers.
The following pics were from the NV RAM I installed on my HUO CC. I used a simple Radio Shack pencil iron, and Radio shack spring release solder sucker.