Quoted from pocketscience:
Justify it to yourself all you like - just for a moment though put yourself in his shoes and think about the reality of what happened and then think about the words you use and how they sound.
I completely agree with pocketscience. I find your comments appalling, offensive, and completely outside of any common decency. You are talking about a real person suffering a real loss, not some play on the sports field. Even if you think these horrendous things, you don't need to share every crappy thought that pops into your head on this forum. I don't see it falling anywhere near the "Be nice" guidelines for posting.