Quoted from Lermods:What's wrong with Zelle?
Zelle is great, I use it all the time to make various payments because they can't be reversed. It's main limit is how much you can do per day. If you add someone new then you can generally only send them $500 per day for a while. Eventually that bumps up, but it's still capped typically at around $2500 per day.
Regarding Paypal I'll say only one thing, if I ever wanted to rip off Pinsiders I'd use Paypal because it's just that easy, even with friends and family. I use paypal all the time for < $100 amounts. For large amounts you are basically asking to be ripped off. You call.