The pinhead rules of engagement require me to tell you that yes, you have most likely been scammed. It does not take 2 months to ship a playfield. You can pursue him directly, but chances are equally good that he's eaten, drank or smoked your money already. You can go after him and pour more good money after bad or you can consider it tuition and never mail cash or cash equivalents in advance again. Both have their merits, but in your shoes I'd vote for door #2.
I think putting up a copy of the complete correspondence online where Google can get access to it would be fair and reasonable.
Just my $0.02..
Post edited by swf127 : English, my first language is..