Step one, look at your picture, see how you have two black wires on on end?
Where do those go? If they go to the coil then by the logic diagram I provided, they are pins 1 and 2.
Now look at how the connector is plugged into the PBDB, note how there is a 1 and a 6 etched on the board?
IF (assuming the two black wires went to the coil) the two black wires go to the coil, AND you have them orientated like in the picture, you have the connector plugged in 180 degrees out and may have destroyed that PBDB...
If Ken and I are correct, you need to rotate that connector so that the 2 black wires that are on one end, are toward the 1 side as etched on the PBDB.
Once you have that done, then the remaining wires, 4 5 and 6 are as follows;
#4 the one with the stripe should go off to the K relay right next to the PBDB.
#5 the red one, should be spliced into any #5 wire on the nearest other PBDB.
#6 the black one, should be tied to ground somewhere. And also plugged in near the 6 etched on the PBDB...
One you do that, if it still does not work, you can rotate that PBDB into any other position such as the 5 target bank reset to see if it is fried.