I think the premises is flawed. Marriage is about a partnership. It’s not one side
Vs the other but how you work together to support each other. If both people are on same team and want each other happy they support them in their recreational pursuits. My wife likes pinball but not as much as I do. She supports my hobby and I support her interests in the garden club and playing tennis. I guess it’s how you look at your relationship and allow your love one to pursue their interests outside of your day to day responsibilities.