Your particular style of coil bobbin does not use a brass spacer washer at the back of the bobbin. The back end of your bobbin has a thick plastic covering around the coil core that provides the correct spacing of the coil bobbin in the relay frame. This photo illustrates the difference. The bobbin on the left uses a brass spacing washer. The bobbin the right (the same kind as yours) does not use a brass spacing washer.
As for the sticking Z relay, have you cleaned and dressed the face of the relay armature? It sounds like your Z relay could be sticking mechanically, rather than being magnetized. Here is a related post that describes the issue I'm talking about:
https://pinside.com/pinball/forum/topic/jumping-jack-scoring-relay-sticks-sometimes#post-6014112
- TimMe