The Make/Break switch on the FS relay mini stepper alternates between the two lights in a 5 ball game but the Sequence Completed switches also need to close:
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They might be located on the drop target banks.
You can temporarily bypass the FS relay switch altogether by putting the game in 3 ball mode and attaching an alligator clip test lead to the orange-green or orange+green wire on one side of the Make/Break switch and the black-yellow wire (not labeled above) between the FS relay switch and the Motor 1C switch. Then you can experiment to see when/whether the Sequence Completed switches are working.
/Mark