Quoted from lukex:Women and kids aren't 'supposed' to like pinball - so most don't.
I think that's part of the issue.
(Odd parallel)
Im a shooting enthusiast, and shooting sports is a HUGELY male dominated area. However, as a NRA instructor, I can honestly say I've NEVER had a woman take a class or simply come out and try shooting that didn't thoroughly enjoy it and want to come back for more.
The most common thing I hear is "I never thought I'd like this" or "this is totally different than what my (media driven) perception was of this!"
Whats the answer? I dont know... but i dont think its about "themes" or pretty colors.... just like pink guns don't draw women to shootings, TRYING it does. I think pinball is similar.
Host a "ladies night' at the local arcade (or you're local man-cave- vacuum first though). Serve wine and cheese and let them all try it.... you might be surprised.
But, the reality is- I dont think you can change human nature- and there's some of that at play here...