I. Love all the responses thanks.
To getting married at all: I would never normally do it. I was getting a divorce before my stroke and three brain surgeries. Everything about me changed. Now after some truly epic struggles, almost dying and being saved by Veronika more than once, we are soul mates now so to speak. We didn't start that way. We became that. Partially a very hard way.
I would give her the universe if I could. I know that seems sappy.
So then it does need to be epic, but it needs to be something she would like. She loves that I love pinball but doesn't care for it herself. Vegas is looking feasable. I have a few from Michigan who might come relatives, and Veronika if we were lucky a few could fly over from Moscow.
I also could easily see any frigging resort all inclusive working.
I might need to just do it in Vegas to flip off the first marriage and start the new one right. Also if I did Vegas anyone could come. It might be nice free for all.