That’s a great point. I recently had a local guy ask about my POTC via text. Even though I wasn’t sure I was ready to sell, I told him all the details about it. I think the ideal exchange goes one of 2 ways, with some small variations:
A:
“hey, I see you have <game>, I’d love to buy it from you.”
“thanks, but I’m really enjoying it right now. Check back with me in a year.” Or
“thanks! I love it and I can’t see myself ever selling it. But I hope you can find one too!”
B:
“hey, I see you have <game>, I’d love to buy it from you.”
“yeah, I love it but I do think I’m ready to sell it for the right price. I’ll send you some pics tomorrow”
<owner sends pics>
“wow, that’s exactly what I’m looking for. Would you take $xyz?”
“I’d let it go for $abc, it’s pretty hard to find and I’ve made these improvements.”
“Sounds good, let’s do it!”
I’ve been the buyer and seller in both situations. One time I sold a game for exactly what I had in it, and I was just happy that I didn’t have to list it. Another time, someone offered me a $1000 profit for a “keeper”. I’ve even sold a game because someone’s kid loved it, and it made me happy that they did.