If you are still in on TBL, good for you, I hope it works out and you get your pin slightly earlier in the queue than you originally wanted, and you get to hold your head high as a True Believer™.
But for christ sake, quit shaming people who, for whatever reason, want DP to make good on their promise that they could get out at any time. No one forced DP to make that promise.
Does anyone believe that, even if DP had access to all the funds, they could make good on that promise to 100% of their customers if they all requested refunds? If the answer is no, then they should never have made that promise, and should have tied refunds to selling your spot in line.
Funding your company with pre-order money and 100% guaranteed refunds are incompatible concepts. Good intentions don't mean anything. If you couldn't make good on it, you shouldn't have made that promise. For an example of how to do it right, back when Multimorphic was taking pre-order deposits, ALL of the money remained untouched in an account, as they were serious about ensuring that customers were protected from risk. They never funded development with preorder money. Now they require zero money up front to reserve your game.
As for their handling of Phil and the money he locked them out of, I put the blame on them. Phil quit Nov 1 very publicly. He still had control of the money A MONTH LATER when he locked them out. And their solution to the problem, as we saw in that Dec 3rd email, was just to insist he stay on and continue to manage that money and pay the bills from it.
Then when people requested their refunds, instead of taking ownership of a problem they allowed to happen (By not securing the funds when Phil quit AND spending preorder money on development, ensuring they couldn't refund everyone) they made it their customers' problem. What needed to happen was assurances that ALL refund requests would be met as soon as THEY remedied the situation with Phil, and that they were devoting all energies to get it remedied as soon as possible with ample communication. Instead, people got emails saying they were sending refund requests to Phil, thus turning their corporate infighting into the customer's problem. And god forbid you paid with a method other than Paypal, because they seem to have zero accounting for where any of that money went.
There is no reason to shame people for not supporting pinball because they no longer have confidence in the company. They definitely got hit with an unexpected crisis, but their handling of that crisis alone is enough for reasonable people to no longer trust them with their money. In addition to that, plenty has happened in the industry to discredit the entire pre-order funded business model. Soberly assessing those facts doesn't mean these people aren't supporting the hobby. This is the pinball business, not a church. Good feelings and a shared desire for a game to exist is not enough to actually will a game into existence at the end of a production line.
I fully believe that should DP be able to survive this, get people refunded who want refunds, and find a way to finance the rest of development the hard way, they will have a very viable business model selling these games. Despite all of their missteps, SO MANY people in this thread, even their biggest vocal critics, want the game to exist, and a large chunk of those want to buy it. If the business plan was solid and the game would be profitable at $9k, I think the demonstrable demand would be more than enough to ensure the game gets made somehow or another, like Roger Sharpe said. If they can't survive refunding everyone, that's nobody's fault but their own, and certainly not the fault of the customers.
(Seriously, if you guys want to support innovation in pinball, go put your name on the list for a P3 at www.multimorphic.com. A healthy list of supporters helps them secure third party financing, and not 1 cent is due before the game enters production. If it starts production and you still aren't convinced it is right for you, you don't have to do a thing, your order is automatically cancelled with zero penalty 15 days after non-payment.
Or go buy an AMH from spooky and pay for the game, not development. Supporting pinball doesn't have to mean risking your money as an interest-free loan. Investors get equity in exchange for risk. The pre-order model passes that risk onto customers without costing the company any equity. Please stop spreading the myth that that is the only way non-stern pinball can be made. I just gave you 2 examples to the contrary. It's harder, but it is the right way to do things.)