Coming to grips as to when is the right time to say good bye.
Dewey our Doxie, will be 16yrs old come June.
Just like us all, he can not out-fox father time.
Dewey has been moving pretty slow lately.
He can no longer walk up or down stairs, can barely manage the 2 steps up/down the porch
to go do his business outside anymore.
He still has a very good appetite, he follows his nose,
but is nearly blind with cataracts and his hearing is selective at best.
Of late his hind legs have given out from under him, having wood floors does not help his ability to pick himself up and gain any traction.
He has also started to piss and poo in the house, on occasion, if we do not get to the door in time, or if he even bothers to go to the door.
It used to be he could hold it no problem, and we would let him out every 4 hrs during the day, now we are on a 1-2 hr potty schedule,
he can hold it for about 6 hrs thru the night, but if he gets up stirring we take him out just in case.
It did get so bad last week that he was constantly doing the splits with his hind legs or he would drag them behind him, barely able to stand on his own.
We got some meds from the vet, Rimadyl, and that helped a lot and he is back to walking;
with an occasional gitty-up and go, especially if he knows mealtime is involved.
But the end is near, and we do not want him to suffer, also my wife and I are not getting younger,
and if we get to the point where we have to carry him everywhere, (he is ~25lbs),
it takes a toll on us, especially my wife, who has had Dewey since he was a pup.
I am hoping he can make it thru the summer, but who knows, It will be a tough decision no matter when it comes.
Sometimes I almost wish he dies peacefully in his sleep, so we will not have to make that final decision for him.