Quoted from lpeters82:I wish facebook had a system where the price goes up for a particular buyer every time they message me. I listed my collection of Magic The Gathering cards and this has been a conversation, I've had at least 50 times:
Buyer: Is the item available?
Me: Yes, when would you like to stop by and look at it?
Buyer: Can you give me a better description and take more pictures?
Me: Sure, here you go.
Buyer: Do you have ______?
Me: I'm not sure, I haven't played for over fifteen years, but you are welcome to come and look though everything before purchasing
Buyer: Is this the lowest you'd take?
Me: I don't negotiate with myself, but feel free to make an offer.
Then it's one (or a combination) of the following...
Buyer: I thought you were closer.
Buyer: Will you ship.
Buyer: *nothing*
It's not bad once, but when you have this same conversation 20 times, without a single person actually following threw it's annoying. I swear everyone just wants the ability to buy something. They don't actually want to buy it, they just want the ability to buy it if at a point in the future they decide they really want the item. These are the same people who get mad when the item actually sells. "...but, I told you I was interested." That's great, but the other buyer wasn't in a 2-week negotiation period. They just showed up and paid me.
On Facebook I usually just respond to "do you still have the game" with "yes, when would you like to come get it?". They either stop responding at that point or we talk about a deal. If they start with "well I can be there in a week because I need a truck from a guy I knew in high school if my wife lets me that is lol you know how it goes" I just ask for a PayPal deposit right away or tell them to message me again an hour before they leave on whatever arbitrary day they decide and I'll tell them if I still have it or not. Usually works the same way, they either agree or just stop responding.
This is actually one of the reason I prefer FB messenger and texting to calling. Its typically much easier for me to read a message or send one at my own pace vs. stopping what I'm doing at work, running to meetings, driving in the car, playing with a laughing two year old to have a 20 minute conversation about a game that might end up with nothing happening anyways.
I feel like there's a big "these kids hate personal interactions I won't sell them anything" attitude with alot of people. While I admit I hate talking on the phone, its just so much quicker to shoot someone a message saying hey I'm interested, I'll come look at or buy the game, let me know when you get a minute and shoot me the address. No phone tag, no weird conversations or calling when someone else is eating/working/etc. or I'm trying to do the same. I'd much rather deal with someone quickly over text at my own pace then chat for an hour on the phone trying to describe where a plastic is cracked to someone with crappy cell service and a kid screaming for attention. In the time it takes to schedule a phone call we could have just made the deal.