Unless you enjoy bartending, my suggestion is to go with just the back bar. People can get their own drinks. Then have whatever seating you choose facing your entertainment center. I'd rather look at that then an back bar anyway. We just put in a bar height row behind our theater chairs. My "bar" is basically just a second row of seating.
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