First, I would recommend not adding anything and focusing on one problem at a time. Let's table the ferris wheel for the moment.
The solenoid table in the manual show the pf GI is solenoid #10 and wiring is 8P3-10 via 5J2-8, 5J6-8. The number "5" in those last numbers is a code that refers to the aux driver board. If you look at the schematics, you'll see the purpose of this is for the coil circuit to pickup a flyback diode. Coil diodes were removed from the playfield coils and given a place to live on the aux driver board to improve reliability.
As I said earlier, grounding the tab tests the solenoid circuit downstream from the MPU driving transistor. Since it didn't work, the following possibilities:
a bad connection anywhere along the output path from MPU Q9 to the pf GI relay (MPU out, In and out of aux driver, and playfield connectors)
failed relay
failed flyback diode.
From here you can rule out the relay (yes, you replaced it...but ground the trigger wire at the relay board to be certain it works.)
Check connectors 1P12-2, 8P3-10, 5J2-8, 5J6-8
Check diode D10