You can try the DE DMD you have - shouldn't be a problem.
Try reseating the ribbon cable. You may also want to just get a couple of new ones. Same cable from the CPU to the DMD/driver board - they are interchangable.
The other thing you can try is disconnect EVERYTHING from the DMD controller and disconnect the ribbons to the CPU board and then power it on and see if the LED starts blinking on power up. If it does then something connected to the CPU board is keeping it from booting. If it doesn't and you have to try your power trick, then the problem is on the CPU board. You may want to try a new ROM to see if perhaps it is suffering from bit rot. An EPROM I tested recently was giving me different results every time I went to verify it. On rare occasion it would yield the correct checksum but in no way was it consistent. It needed to be erased and reburned.
Unfortunately, by this point, there's not much else you can do unless you start shotgunning. And this is not a board to shotgun. Sys3 has some very fine traces and it is super easy to damage the board if you're not careful.
If you do decide to go this route, start with the caps as I mentioned earlier. If that doesn't work, then a new U11 would be next. And if that isn't it then a new RAM. But you see where this is going...
viperrwk