I don't know you Pacmanretro, but we all have something in common here on this forum. Post away my man, it sounds like your mom was a great person and you are honoring her by telling us who she was, which is in turn, who you are. It takes a real man to know when he needs support from friends and family.
Your post is valid. It has reminded me who I need to call today to tell her that I love her.
-Peace be with you