There are two relays that are always energized in your machine when the power switch is on. One is on the coin door. The other one, I think the one you are referring to, is on the motor board on the bottom of the cabinet. It is called the LOCK relay. It is normal for the coil to be warm, but not hot. The coil was likely replaced some time in the past with the wrong coil.
The LOCK relay by the way is not part of the configuration to set up free play.