Hi pheff
You are surprised You get the signal "continuity" when You expect "NO continuity". You are at "Why do I do not like to use 'meters' when testing EM-Pins (?)" ---very often there is a connection from testlug-1 all the way to the transformer - THROUGH the windings in the transformer - and a wiring from the transformer to second lug (testlug-2) You use for measuring ...
There are not two ways to energize the Player-Reset-Relay - Your 1) is the only way to energize it --- I call this "Initial-Current flows". The relay actuating does close its switch (the Self-Hold-Switch) - the turning Score-Motor also closes for a long time its SCM-1A --- the "Self-Hold-Current / circuitry is established for a long time --- so the stepping Player-Unit-RESET does take place. Greetings Rolf