Rolf - I noticed this post and am having a similar problem with my Old Chicago. Alternator relay was working fine and then, all of a sudden, I noticed the the top rollover lanes and top thumper bumpers weren't alternating each time a 10-point switch closed. I did what you said, watched the 00-90 unit as someone else closed a 10 point switch. The 00-90 unit rotated flawlessly.
Then I opened up the game and did the same thing, watching the alternator relay. It wouldn't close - stayed stuck open. I put on a rubber glove and manually closed the relay with a piece of cardboard and the thumper bumpers and rollover lane lights alternated.
So the 00-90 unit works and the alternator relay does what it's supposed to do. It just won't energize. Any guess why?
FYI - i cleaned the switches in the relay and they all seem to be gapped properly.
Thanks!