You made the mistake of letting her think the whole place was hers to decorate. So no you need your own space so it doesnt hurt your relationship IMO. Get rid of bulky funiture like a computer desk and find another alterative for that. You need to get 1 pin at least in your place if you love the hobbie and she loves you she should understand. If not then you should run for the hills. Im not one to let someone run my life. I consider myself the "KING OF THE CASTLE" and if they dont like it....see ya. Yes im divorced @35. Was married <3y.