I tend to have fairly straightforward taste in wine.
My favorite “any occasion” wine is ZACCAGNINI MONTEPULCIANO D'ABRUZZO (also known as Stick Wine). It’s perfect with Italian foods, but is great with red meats or sweets as well. It isn’t expensive, and is pretty available. The only downside is occasionally it has years that are not quite as good (2014 wasn’t great).
In that same vein, Shannon Ridge makes something they call “Wrangler Red”, which is a great blend for pizza. It’s a Zin based blend that is just right to me. Inexpensive and goes well with pizza and pinball nights.
In the early 90s I did the Napa thing and stopped at Silverado Vineyards. That was back when you could fly home with a travel pack of 6 bottles in the overhead compartment. And I did. I associated Silverado with special occasions. When my ex-wife moved out I popped open a young merlot from there. Their Cabernet ages really well. After about 10 years it is unreal. About 45 a bottle for the Cab. It’s good early, but giving it time makes it perfect.
My sister (who is no longer with us) bought me a bottle of the 2009 Silverado Cabernet when I did some car work for her years ago. Once I have the vaccine and can responsibly celebrate with family again, that will be the bottle I open.