I was also thinking about this as well. I bought SM last month, before I knew of AFMr and because it was near mint condition. I owned SM before for a while, sold it and just picked up last month and added Color DMD.
I have a lot less playing time on AFM so I can't say if it's any better than SM?
I am probably just wait and see what AFMr looks like once they ship and if there are any PF issues or anything else that could be a demerit.
AFM will likely be in production for 2 years and will be on the re-sale market so it's not as if you need to make a decision right now.