Quoted from mark532011:Removing the connector from a housing without damaging the housing is tricky
Any job is easy with proper tools. This is but one example of removal tools, this one may or may NOT fit your connectors, is to be used as a guide only.
https://www.digikey.com/product-detail/en/molex/0011030044/WM9918-ND/210947
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