Hey there, and welcome!

For a 30 minute drive, I'd go there myself and get it ready. It really isn't difficult, but yes, the first time is daunting.

I'm certain there is a video somewhere you can view. Perhaps a Pinsider local could help you out?

Don't move with legs on!
The leg bolts are 5/8 inch, the head generally has 9/16 bolts.

You can stand it up on its backside once the back legs are off.

Lay a towel or something between the head and main cabinet to prevent dents to rails and damage to head wood. I generally wrap some plastic wrap around a few times to secure it.

I'd like to say don't worry about the balls, but, I'm uncertain if this game will keep them in place.

Well, that's a start at least.