Totally understand the need to vent. I'm right there with you and have been living it for five years. A better approach would have been to start an off topic Alzheimers thread. Most people don't know that "memory care" is a stupid name for where they put Alzheimers victims. PM me if you want to chat. Or maybe start a new thread that is clearly defined. There's not much overlap between pinball and this topic but it is a supremely relevant discussion for those that have been exposed to it and we are all here to support each other.