alright. Rolf i have NOT done your advised jumpering tests yet (grumble) but have made other fixes. I am fairly certain I have fixed the main issue at hand. ( i still plan on doing tests to confirm 100% working)
I think the main culprit of this whole mess was a broken/unattached wire within a male plug on a jones plug unit. Wire attached to one switch blade on RELAY F, corresponded to same color male jones plug that connected backbox to main body (not jones plug attached to Relay F). it was a purple/yellow wire.
I also installed a new wiper blade to one side of Relay F, and also installed a new switch (both blades) to Relay F.
with said fixes, alternating lights do alternate when expected. i do question 100% functionality because of post #11, where i observe top bonus lights, at ball plunge, CENTER LIGHT is lit. when i play multiple games, SOMETIMES center light is first to be lit, and sometimes LEFT AND RIGHT lights are lit. I am not sure if this is correct, or if there is still an issue.
but with that said, i do feel this problem is fixed. Now i move on to the "horseshoe" lights. they do not reset correctly. I will start a new feed for that.
as always, THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR HELP. this community is amazing.
your friend in pinball,
barry.