Quoted from xeneize:the transistor had always tested "good"
You can't accurately test a mosfet in-circuit.
Quoted from xeneize:A) if the coil I just pulled out was bad, is it normal that it would still fire at all?
B) if something somewhere either in the playfield wiring or on the board is destroying coils, what would that be?
We're really talking more about the diode than the coil. If the diode was shorted then the coil would still work but you would get high voltage feedback to the board, which could cause a reset or other problems. The most common reason for a diode getting blown on a coil is being installed backwards or the driver transistor locks on.